Many Sides of Anger

“People often say that this or that person has not yet found himself.  But the self is not something that one finds, it is something that one creates.”  Thomas Szasz Anger is an interesting emotion. It is often described as “anger issues” that come along with anxiety....

Self-esteem. How do I care for me?

Humans are naturally self-obsessed, self-judging, and other self-observations and contradictions. We think about how we present to others and if we have value in their eyes. Do we measure up to their expectations? Often, we blame ourselves or attempt to create a...

The Power of Passivity

When we think of passivity we often think of nonparticipation, indifference, apathy, unresponsiveness, inactiveness. When we take a new look at passivity, we may consider that passivity is a major part of passive-aggressive behaviors. If a person responds aggressive...

Relationship Decisions = Risk vs Benefits

Before you make a decision and determine how this decision will affect your and your partner’s lives, pause and consider the logic of what you are telling yourself. Think of this decision as being significant –- write the pluses and the minuses and weigh the outcome....