Many Sides of Anger

“People often say that this or that person has not yet found himself.  But the self is not something that one finds, it is something that one creates.”  Thomas Szasz Anger is an interesting emotion. It is often described as “anger issues” that come along with anxiety....

The Power of Passivity

When we think of passivity we often think of nonparticipation, indifference, apathy, unresponsiveness, inactiveness. When we take a new look at passivity, we may consider that passivity is a major part of passive-aggressive behaviors. If a person responds aggressive...

use anger carefully

  “Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.” Buddha Anger is a helpful emotion if used in a healthy way. Anger alerts me that something is amiss. Ask yourself, “What am I telling...

anger and food = fear

  ANGRY Eating vs Using Food as Fuel Weight gain is a common problem for many of us. Let’s take a look at the various reasons we allow ourselves to eat too much food and things that are so unhealthy. Common excuses we use are: it was party time, everyone else was...

anger used effectively

  “It is wise to direct your anger towards problems – not people, to focus your energies on answers- not excuses.” William Arthur Ward Do you know how to problem solve vs blaming and making excuses? Cognitive Behavioral therapy teaches you to problem solve using...

appreciate self & life

  Immaturity breeds insecurity and fears. That’s living in the past. Learn Skills and deal with life in the Present – in a mature way. Transform yourself from a blaming to a claiming person. Claim life and appreciate all your blessings. Transform from a fearful...